Stories

Carr, Sheila Edith (Shaw) #125 *

Honoured by her family. 

Sheila Carr
Our Mom, Sheila, was a teacher of family values in life, including love, honesty and hard work.
Her Father, J.L. Shaw, born in Scotland, became a local businessman in North Bay – owning Macdonald Beverages pop bottling and Distribution Company on property which has now become part of the beautiful waterfront. He achieved his dreams through hard work, commitment and volunteering. He was Mayor of North Bay in 1947.
Learning from her Father and Mother Edith Webber, Sheila, her sister Jackie and brother Gary, with their spouses, were also successful business developersand stock market entrepreneurs. Among the companies they founded were Pop Shoppes and GramaLees Bakery.
After meeting her husband, Gordon E. Carr, they started a company, Northland Glass and Metal, in North Bay.
They had four kids – Michael, Laural, Nancy and Robert. They have all grown to be equally hardworking respectable business owners and professionals.
Mom, if you look back at your accomplishments, you should be very proud. One lesson you told us a long time ago was that you get out of life what you put into it.
You have been the tree of our success, the roots of our support, the trunk of our strength, the branches of family and the leaves of individuality.
Love – your son – Rob.

Things my Mother taught me about life:
1. Moms love you unconditionally
2. A lot about cooking and love of different foods
3. It’s very important to get a good education
4. Keep up your appearance (unless you don’t want to)
5. Be confident, you are a smart person and can do anything you set your mind to
6. Be curious, you are never too old to learn something new, keep learning all your life
7. It’s important to maintain a healthy lifestyle and stay young
8. She supports my decisions as long as they are mine
9. She respects my opinion
10. Work hard, do a good job, but take time to enjoy time for yourself
11. Nothing in life is black and white, just many shades of grey
12. Respect for others and their property, treat others as you would have them treat you
13. Try to be self-sufficient in everything you do
Happy Birthday Mom
April 18, 2011
Love Michael

April 2011
For my Mother, Sheila Carr
In honour of your zest for life, and in the year of a special birthday
Mom, you are a patent and understanding parent, grandparent and teacher, and I admire you for this.
You are open to travel adventure, on the road, on a boat, at a camp or a campground, or in some of the world’s most exotic locations and kitchens. And you return home to your favourite, the unspoiled, rugged beauty of the place of your birth, North Bay.
You are blessed with vitality and a healthy spirit that has equipped you to navigate the ups and downs of life with grace, faith and “positivity”.
You are a steadfast and supportive friend, and it shows in the friends of all ages that surround you. You embrace everyone equally and make all feel welcome with your warm hospitality.
I love the sense of style that you bring to your projects, lessons, parties, events, décor, cookbooks, menus and meals. Your passion, ease and comfort in the kitchen results in unrivaled delight for your family and friends.
Thank you for your sense of adventure.
Thank you for your “positivity”.
Thank you for your friendship.
Thank you for delighting us with yor style savvy.
And thank you for generously sharing these gifts with us all.
With love and gratitude, to my Mom, Sheila Carr, who taught me to always smell the roses along life’s path.
Laural Carr & Nancy Carr

Wallace, Jack & Lovie #1905 *

Milton John (Jack) & Elizabeth(Lovie) Wallace

“Black Jack” Wallace was born in 1880 in Hillsdale, Ontario. He came to North Bay with parents, Robert and Janet Wallace at the age of 9. Leaving school in his teens, he worked as a fireman and then as an engineer for the CPR, before joining his father in one of North Bay’s oldest contracting firms, Robert Wallace & Sons. Numerous North Bay landmarks were constructed by this firm, using bricks from the Wallace brick yard, situated across from the Pete Palangio Arena. These landmarks included: the Normal School (Teacher’s College), many of North Bay’s elementary schools, North Bay Collegiate Institute, the North Bay jail, many homes in the west end of North Bay, and the family home on Campbell Avenue. Jack was active in many community initiatives, served on the delegation to study the Georgian Bay Canal, was a member of the Northern Navigation Co., and president of Georgian Bay Creamery and Bidgood Gold Mines. It was through his efforts that the first of North Bay’s streets were paved.

Lovie Robinson was born in Orangeville March 23, 1884. She and Jack married in Toronto, Christmas Day, 1905 and they settled in North Bay. They had six children – Audrey, Ken, George, Harold, Gerald and Wilfred ( Bae). Jack died in 1930 at the age of 50. Lovie, a very strong and determined woman, with the support of her extended family, temporarily re-located her family to Toronto, in order that her children could complete university educations –Audrey in music, George in law, Harold and Gerald in medicine, and Bae in engineering, and later, in law.

She and her children continued to cottage on Centennial Crescent, Trout Lake, until her death at the age of 57, March 25, 1941. This cottage burned in the late 1950’s and is the current site of the Gerald and Jo Wallace family home.

Lovie lived to meet only one of her 20 grandchildren, Bob, and none of her 42 great grandchildren. Four of Jack and Lovie’s children – Ken, George, Harold and Gerald, remained in North Bay to pursue careers and raise Jack and Lovie’s grandchildren, great grandchildren, and great, great grandchildren. Quite a legacy that we all feel blessed to share!

With love and gratitude,
Bob & Anne, John & Wanda, Mickey & Penny, Dave &Nancy, Jane & Peter
Blake & Rita, Jack & Gwen, Don & Diane
Jamie, Lovie & Danny, Jay & Ginette
Tim & Deb, Kathy & Mike, Sue & Bob, Tom & Joanne
Brian & Wendy, Rory & S, Mike & Christine, Audrey & Joe

Keating, Reverend Donald R. #1979 *

Supercat – Honoured by Phillip Penna and Brennain Lloyd

Don Keating was born and raised on the prairies of Silver Creek Manitoba. He grew up with the values that come from living on a farm. He was not afraid of hard work. Don excelled in baseball, hockey and track in Russell during his school days. He was a loyal friend and a man who treasured his family connections.

Donald’s biggest passion in life was his belief in social justice and peace. He worked to bring this about in every facet of his life from serving with the RCAF in the 40’s, to ministering with the United Church in Sherridan, Oakville, Treherne and Winnipeg, Manitoba in the 50’s, to civil rights actions inspired by Saul Alinsky, Tom Gaudette, and Martin Luther King Jr. in Chicago in the 60’s, to community organizing in Riverdale and teaching at York University in Toronto in the 70’s and then, in rediscovering his voice after his horrendous car accident in 1979.

Don was ahead of his time. He wrote about house churches – a Christian church movement born after WWII – long before anyone understood their meaning. His series of critical articles published in The Winnipeg Tribune about the church in the early 60’s started a conversation about the ability to minister outside the walls of a church. He developed a style of community organizing that became a template for students, both in school and those learning hands on.

Don valued being a Canadian. He was actively involved in politics, starting from within his community and moving naturally to municipalities, provinces and the country as a whole. Voting was an inheritance he felt we should all honour and participate in. Don believed that within each of us we have the power to make it happen, to bring about positive change, not to just let the status quo run the show. Nicknamed “Supercat” back in his organizing days, he went on to write about his experiences in community organizing in The Power to Make it Happen. After his car accident he worked to regain his sense of who he was, and through reading his journals, was able to rediscover his core values and passions and wrote about these experiences in his second book, Supercat.

Don lived in many places in his life, from Winnipeg to Chicago to Toronto, and he was a regular sight around North Bay during the past 20 years, mailing his daily letters to friends and family far and wide, popping into the health food store to pick up his syrup and fresh peanut butter, visiting his bank to write up a money order for some social justice charity in need, singing with Gateway Harmony Barbershoppers and Interlink, sharing weekly church services, bringing along a freshly baked pie or date square to any celebration he attended, lighting candles for peace outside his local MP’s office, stopping into the local book store to buy a few new books, taking film in to get many copies made to share with everyone, and giving out his Supercat book by way of introduction to those he did not know.

Don was a character – someone you would not forget once met. Camping and his love for the land, his VW campers, CBC radio, playing cards, folk and country music, yodelling, playing his guitar and harmonica, his ongoing carpentry projects, late night phone-calls to discuss world news, wearing his McLean tartan – Don had a zest for life that age would not slow down. You always felt at home when you entered his well-lived in home – his warmth and personality greeted you along with the smells of his baking. He surrounded himself with books and photos of those he loved. While newspapers, reports and printed documents were often everywhere, they were his way of keeping everyone in touch with news he felt was important.

Those who were mentored by Don over the years span the globe. He was a knowledgeable, informed coach in community organizing, and he released a legion of community organizers across Canada, and several states in the US and in parts of Asia. His style was to be grounded in a passion that grew out of intolerance for situations where people were oppressed by systems and abusive relationships. And still he retained a sense of humour even when confronted by very demoralizing situations. He never gave up, and his steadfast example gave hope to many.

Don died in the late evening of March 3, 2009 at the age of 83, following a fall in his home in early January. He will not be forgotten. Dad, Grandpa, Don, Supercat – father, grandfather, brother, friend and mentor – his spirit lives in all of us as we question a wrong and not just let it go by unspoken, as we share a genuine smile with a new friend, as we sing a song of praise or light a candle for peace. Don Keating’s very being has inspired us to act with conviction.

Grannary, Dora #88 *

Honoured by Susan, Dale, Lorrie, Billy, David and their families.

Our Mom, Dora Mary Grannary, was born in Sudbury, Ontario, the second of five children, to Tiziano and Mary Caverson. Mom’s earliest years were spent in Coniston before her family returned to Sudbury when she was in grade nine. Mom attended high school at Sudbury Tech in the commercial program, where she developed her secretarial skills and enjoyed playing on the school basketball and volleyball teams. In 1951 Mom married Donald Grannary. They had five children (Susan, Dale, Lorrie, Billy and David), and many grandchildren and great grandchildren.

Mom is well known and respected for her many years working in the insurance industry in Sudbury, Temagami, North Bay, and Edmonton. Today, Mom enjoys singing with the Baytones and her church choirs, and she is actively involved with the Italian Davedi Club. Walking along the North Bay waterfront with her friends and participating with her fitness and square dancing groups, keeps her agile, healthy and young at heart.

Mom’s energetic love of life inspires her children to this day. Her love of many sports, including softball, curling, swimming, golf, and dancing, has carried on through all of her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.

Mom devoted her life to ensuring that her five children were healthy, happy, and loved. She taught us the importance of family values, and our memories include happy gatherings with our grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins. Mom taught us that family time is good for the heart and soul.

Mom taught us about faith and perseverance. She demonstrated that no matter what challenges you face in life, put one foot in front of the other and carry on. It was her very strong faith in God that carried her through difficult times, and today she encourages her family, by example, to cultivate that faith. The Serenity Prayer hangs on Mom’s kitchen wall and she lives by the words – “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.”

Mom has taught us to help others. She spent several years in Sudbury caring for her elderly parents when they could no longer live on their own. Mom is always ready to lend a helping hand. She bakes muffins or makes lasagna for friends or family who are going through difficult times. Mom’s kind nature has taught us to be considerate of others.

Our Mom is an independent, resourceful, and intelligent woman, and her confidence in us inspired us to believe we could accomplish anything we set out to do. Mom has taught us to live, love, and laugh together, and for this we are truly grateful.

We love you, Mom.