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Daly, Barb & Jim & Family #428

Honoured by Barb’s “Kids” – Elliana & Ben, Sonja & Calder

Thank you for honouring Barb and Jim Daly with a Leaf of Inspiration and for supporting your Community Waterfront Park project.  Story to follow.

Becksted, Robert (Bob) #529 *

Robert (Bob) Becksted

“If you truly love nature, you will find beauty everywhere.”

–          Vincent Van Gogh

The calm of the woods. A majestic mountainside. A lakeside retreat. These are places to get to know ones-self and build bonds with family, friends and neighbours. Such is the life of our father/friend/neighbour Robert (Bob) Becksted.

While Bob’s career was dedicated to the built form, Bob also marvels at the sculptural aesthetic in nature – the intricate design of a single leaf, a barren tree, a snow drift, a rock face, or a crashing wave.

A man of integrity and wisdom, Bob’s joie de vivre and love of his surroundings will be his legacies.

 Bob Becksted was born in St. John’s, Quebec in 1928 and raised in Montreal where he grew up with his parents Walter and Violet and his sister Norma. Bob first came to North Bay in 1945 when his father was transferred as official Signals Supervisor of the CPR, beginning a life-long association with the community. Bob attended North Bay Collegiate and Vocational Institute for his final year of high school where he was a star on the football team. It was then that he met the love of his life and his future bride, Shirley Marguerite Ethyl Willoughby, the daughter of Bryce (Doc) Willoughby and Mildred (Sally) of North Bay.

Following high school, Bob was accepted into the School of Architecture at U of T and moved to Toronto. Combining his love of aesthetics, history and mathematics, Bob obtained his degree and graduated in 1951. Bob and Shirley were married in North Bay in 1952, and raised two children, Karen and Scott.

Bob built his architecture practice in Toronto where his first noteworthy design was the award-winning Seaway Hotel on the west Toronto lakeshore, one of the first truly Modernist motor hotels in Canada, earning a 1955 Massey Silver Medal. The iconic Seaway Towers Motor Hotel, also by partners Elken and Becksted, was added on a neighbouring site in 1963. Perhaps one of his most satisfying projects was the preservation and restoration of the historic buildings at Upper Canada Village near Morrisburg where the Becksted ancestors originally settled from New England. One of his most complex and demanding projects was the design of the world-class Etobicoke Olympium, acclaimed as one of the best aquatic facilities in Canada.

Bob’s strongly-held theory of design is that structures should relate to their surroundings. “The built form should complement the environment, not compete with it,” is a favourite phrase and a guiding principle.

When Walter retired in 1963 Bob’s parents built a cottage on Trout Lake which then became the first home that they owned. Violet named it Stoneclough. Bob and Shirley eventually purchased their own adjoining lot and cabin which they expanded and re-modelled in the late 1970’s. In 1990 Bob renovated and expanded what was previously his parents’ home, moving into his own beloved Stoneclough when he retired in 1992.

During retirement Bob has given back to the community through volunteer efforts with the North Bay Municipal Heritage Committee, identifying and protecting heritage properties, including the historic CPR station where his father had worked.

McQuaig, Lillian & McQuaig-Skinner, Judy #236 *

Memorial Tribute for Lillian (Comba) McQuaig (1924-2002)

And Judy (McQuaig) Skinner (1950-2001)

Lillian McQuaig (nee Comba) was born on January 18th, 1924 to Thomas and Theresa Comba in North Bay, Ontario. As the youngest of six children, she benefited from the support of a fun-loving, close-knit family.

She was a devoted mother of five: Tom, Judy, Phyllis, Joan and David, and was further blessed with nine grandchildren. She dedicated her entire life to raising her children (many of those years as a single parent) and was a role model for all mothers. Lillian’s faith and active role in Corpus Christi Church gave her the strength, courage and determination to face life’s challenges with an even temper and an optimistic outlook.

Lillian was an incredible cook and her brownie recipe will be passed down for many generations.  Her desire to please everyone kept her very busy in the kitchen. She never made a meal without taking all food preferences into account and would routinely serve-up a homemade dessert twice a day. Without complaining, she worked tirelessly inside and outside the home to provide for her children.

She took great pride in volunteering many hours to the Catholic Women’s League and the local parish. Her love of music ranged from singing in the church choir to keeping up with the latest “rock” hits well into her 70s.

Lillian possessed a unique ability to teach by example – never admonishing or criticizing. She was the embodiment of goodness and remains our true hero!

Judy Skinner (nee: McQuaig) was born on August 1, 1950 to Lillian and Dalton McQuaig of North Bay, Ontario. She was a dedicated Customer Service employee for Ontario Hydro serving thirty (30) years in this capacity.

Judy was a very social and engaging spirit, evident in the many lifelong friends she gained – both in her beloved hometown as well as the many places she travelled. She was the unofficial “Mayor” of North Bay for many consecutive terms! Judy loved to entertain, hosting many family get-togethers and dinner with friends. Judy’s infectious laugh is one thing her family and friends will never forget.

Through sheer determination and drive, Judy discovered her creative side.  She worked hard to acquire her many artistic skills, some of which included needlepoint, knitting and painting. Her personalized crafts and Christmas ornaments continue to grace our homes and serve as a fond reminder of her many talents.

Judy had a soft spot for her nieces and nephews and loved to treat them to cottage vacations, the trendiest restaurants, coolest shops and nicest hotels. She could always be relied upon for quality alone time or just lending a trusted voice over the phone. She made each one feel special.

Judy’s active involvement in all our lives, her boundless energy, love of life and sense of humor has bestowed endless memories upon us. There was never a dull moment when she was around. Whenever the family is together, you will inevitably hear one exclaim, “Judy would have loved this!”

Honoured by David and Terri McQuaig, Tom and Lois McQuaig, Joan and Mike Medley, Phyllis and Lloyd Beaudin and families.

Gentile, Tony & Susan #237

Honoured by Dina, Joanne, Anson, Evelyn, Emma and Mason.

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Craig, Earl Hamden #235

Honoured by Marg & Gerry Gaiser

Thank  you for honouring Earl Hamden Craig with a Leaf of Inspiration and for supporting your Community Waterfront Park project.  Story to follow.